I started this out as a comment but it got too long. Maybe not a complete answers, but some thoughts on your proposed solution.
I think the key point to contest (when talking to your management) is this:
We had presented migrations as a solution here already, but the above is the current focus of exploration.
What's important to realize is that by rolling your own content merging/propagation strategy you're still using migrations. You're just not using any of the proven, useful tools for performing migrations. I feel like I can hear the conversation where somebody went "But can't we just1 …" and the proposed solution was merging some part of the content from a pre-prod environment with the production environment. But where are the boundaries between those? Are they even crystal clear?
It's not as simple as grabbing a couple of tables (the content and the user data, respectively) from each database and merging them together. For one, content is always split across multiple tables. Many fields store content in their own dedicated tables, so what if you're using one of those fields on both regular entries (coming from pre-prod) and user accounts (coming from production). So you have to find a way to merge those, while retaining all sorts of constraints on the database level. By sidestepping Craft's API and going directly to the database, you basically have to ensure you know all the ins and outs of how and where Craft stores data and handle all edge-cases that Craft already handles for you. Of course, you'll also have to maintain your custom solution whenever a new Craft version breaks something in your migration code.
In terms of talking to management – I'd start by talking about risks and benefits. What is the risk of updating content on a production environment? Some internal inconsistencies while changes are being made? On the other hand, what's the risk of rolling your own migration script with difficult rules for merging content? Accidentally dropping important user data? High maintenance costs for constant updates? It's just not worth it.
Better solutions
I'd say what you really want is a way to export content from your pre-prod environment to production in a predictable way. Exporting is even built into Craft. Importing could be done with the Feedme plugin. If you want to get fancier than manual imports/exports, you could build a small plugin with a button that just pushes content from one environment to the other (target, authentication keys etc can come from environment variables). This way, you could still update content across the entire side in one atomic step, but you could use Crafts API and keep your sanity.
Another approach: Craft 3 separates content from config and the deployment/migration processes are clearly geared towards that separation. So if migrating content alongside code and configuration is an important requirement – how about using another CMS that is better suited for that task? Statamic has a git plugin that allows you to track content changes in git. And there are other platforms that allow you to separate production data from site content/copy, in particular headless platforms like Strapi. Maybe one of those would work better for your usecase.
1 https://signalvnoise.com/posts/439-four-letter-words